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[quote=Anonymous]I was married before and I didn't want to change my name. I'm not a feminist or a liberal or anything and all of my family members are very traditional, and the women have all changed their names. Looking back, I honestly think it was my gut telling me that this man wasn't really the one for me. We divorced after 4 years of marriage. I'm now engaged to someone else, and I actually cannot wait to take his name. I am so proud to be his partner and soon-to-be wife. Maybe some people view it as antiquated, I don't. Maybe some people view it as the man claiming the woman as his property, I don't. But really, I have no issue being seen as "his." I AM his. I'm still an autonomous human being and he lets me be myself and do as I please. Just the way I see it. [/quote]
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