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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like this thread is DCUM at its most batshit crazy. Can you guys hear yourself? "Separating a woman from her biological child is lethal but separating a man is merely painful"

Jeeeeesus. I've said it a few times in this thread but you are all about preserving the 'marriage' over basically everything else in the world. Including your own values, general morality, and a completely innocent baby's well being.

I also echo another PP. Apparently being married to a dead beat is ok with some of you as long as he never talks to his side piece again but in my world? Any man who has accepted that he is not allowed to see his own child, his own flesh and blood, is not the type of man I want to be married to. I would be absolutely disgusted.

I almost broke up with my DH when we were dating because HIS BROTHER had a baby in college with a girlfriend that he walked away from and the whole family seemed kind of ok with it. It was only until I talked to him about it more and learned that DH had kind of been keeping tabs on the girl and making sure she was alright that I thought he was ok. Walking away from a child is a horrific thing for an adult to do. [/quote]

Tell me about it! How do you respect a man who is ok with no or limited contact with his child?

I broke up with my first love for hiding his child from me. He claimed I was too judgmental so he was afraid that I will judge him(he had the child as a teenager and we were still in college when we were dating).

I told him," if you can be ashamed of your child, you could be ashamed of me and mine if we ever got married and things did not work out".  And this guy actually had contact with the child. He just never told his friends and girlfriends that he had one. [/quote]

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