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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know, some women gain weight when married not because they are lazy and selfish in at their comfort weight, but because they fall into a depression and have low self esteem caused by a very bad marriage. I didn't even know I was having depression issues until I saw a therapist post separation. I did put on some weight the first several years of marriage as did my ex because we enjoyed way too much food together. but he punished me for it, punished me dearly. It has taken a lot of therapy to regain my self esteem and the food seeking part of me is fading away. [/quote]
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People make all kinds of excuses for weight gain, but it all comes back to the individual who eats more calories than burn.[/b]
You blame your marriage and your ex for your weight. Easier to blame others than to take responsibility for ourselves.
Here's an alternative theory: your marriage was damaged by your weight gain, the physical attraction was no longer binding you together.
Don't believe that? Well this is exactly the case in my house.[/quote]
So I see you don't believe that the added burdens of childcare and housework should take any more hours of your day? [/quote]

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