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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP. He vehemently denied anything. Which means....is it really possible I have had this STI for that long? The OB I spoke with said he thought it was highly unlikely I've had it that long. I'm going to get more opinions....in the meantime, I guess the towel/toilet seat holds?! I truly don't know what to think or what to do.[/quote]

Ask him to get tested for whatever you have as well as a full STD panel and share the results with you. (As you will with him.). Healthwise, it doesn't matter whether he is telling the truth or not. You both should be tested, treated and then tested again. No sex until after treatment, and if you do decide to continue to have sex, use condoms
always and continue to get tested every few months.

Meanwhile, now is the time to keep your eyes wide
open - look at computer history, bank and cell phone records, make sure what he says and what he does line up, etc.

It's sort of interesting that he vehemently denied it but did not turn it around and ask if you were cheating on him.  That would be my first thought if my partner came to me saying he had an STD and accusing me of cheating when I knew I hadn't.

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