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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tell my husband to do this on his way home. He literally pulls over into a parking lot and watches movies to wind down from his day. He comes home so much calmer.

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What kind of movies would have him coming home "so much calmer?" Serious question. Can't they watch movies at home?
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DP. Do you not understand, PP? Being at home is part of the problem, when one is trying to decompress between work and home. Hard to watch movies as a calming break, if kids are coming in and wanting attention, or spouse is asking questions about household things, etc. That is why "Can't they watch movies at home?" is unhelpful. Home itself is a reason for the need to decompress, sometimes, for some people. And that's OK, if watching movies in the car for a while helps a person walk in the front door at home calmer and more relaxed, and readier to deal with the kids, dinner, questions, etc. [/quote]

Ok let’s call a spade a spade.

Having out yourself for 30-60 minutes when you have household, children, meal, planning responsibilities is exactly what it is: Dodging responsibilities

Now, if you have autism and are constantly overwhelmed and fatigued and giving your 5-6 hours of energy only to work, then get therapy. Then come to agreement that the only way you function is with big breaks throughout the day. Sorry spouse! Sorry kids! [/quote]

A womans attitude like this would make me live in a parking lot not just sit there for 30 minutes....[/quote]

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