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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Very pretty" women are almost never single.  They must not be pretty.[/quote]

Untrue. There are many very pretty single women.[/quote]

They must still be in their 20s.

A "very pretty" woman would be fending off suitors. There are always exceptions, but in 95% of the cases, a really pretty woman would be scooped up real quick.

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A lot of them don’t want to be scooped up and they’re sick of fending off suitors. I’ve been told I’m beautiful objectively and I’m 45 and I always have male attention and I can’t stand it and I’m single because I want to be single because I’m sick of men. They have nothing to offer. They’re always fawning over me and they’re annoying. [/quote]

This is something people dont tell you.  When you're attractive, you get to really see how men TRULY are.  You get to see how many of them are raw horndogs that will check you out openly and brazenly while their pregnant wife is standing a foot away.  You see the way men try to pressure you into sex, or treat you weirdly, or claim to "feel a connection" when they barely know you.  On the other hand, plenty of beautiful women never get approached because men generally want someone who is easy and will look after them and take care of them, and they assume the beautiful woman is too stuck up for that.

I honestly think making a relationship work is often WORK and the only women who seem to really be willing to do it are the women who are either 1) desperate financially 2) not that attractive and have something to prove 3) very obsessed or committed to the idea of a two parent, traditional family life.  That's the only way the juice is worth the squeeze, if you're getting something out of it that you really want.

For highly attractive women, who already get all the male validation they could want from the stares they get on the street, occasional freebies they might get from smitten male workers, lots of compliments from women about their looks, what's the point in putting up with male behavior, especially if they have their own money?  Being in a relationship with a man involves a lot of overlooking his annoying or childlike tendencies, having sex when you dont feel like it, arguing with him to do more chores around the house, etc.  If you're already beautiful, already have that societal validation, already have money... why bother?[/quote]

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