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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get it. I'll be so careful not to mess up when my son has a spouse. You see so many young people alone or in bad relationships, its a blessing for your child to have someone who loves them and cares about them. [/quote]

Yeah I don't get it either. Why would you go out of your way and make it a point to exclude the most important person in the world most likely to your child. You may not care about their significant other's feelings but you should care about the feelings of your own child.

I just see too many people holding on to what was. In my mind "nuclear" family trips where significant others were excluded was fine when your kid was in high school or younger but especially if your child doesn't even live in the family home anymore and is living with their SO they probably consider that person part of their nuclear family.

Doesn't it cost a lot less to be inclusive than to be exclusive? You have a lot more to gain by being inclusive than being exclusive. What is it going to hurt you to have their SO along? Again I definitely don't think paying for your child's SO is a requirement. So they can't say they can't afford it [/quote]

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