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Reply to "Would you confront your husband/wife's Emotional Affair lover?"
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[quote=Anonymous]And you're cheating with someone who is also married? Do they have kids? You can't admit that what you're doing is completely and totally selfish? And you're ok with that? Why not tell DH you're opening the marriage and find someone else single or who also has an open marriage? Particularly when there are kids involved, I imagine it would just be crushing guilt. Maybe having seen myself what cheating does to a marriage and to kids (both my parents and my own marriage), I know what the outcomes of these types of choices can be. They are devastating and life-long challenges that you, because you don't have the courage to just leave your spouse or open up your marriage honestly, are bestowing upon the spouse of your partner and any children, including your own. I can't imagine not thinking about that constantly.[/quote]
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