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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs are very much about[b] getting scraps/breadcrumbs of love [/b]and I think pp understands that.  that dynamic is why they happen- you don’t think you need or deserve better than someone’s scraps.  For me I just thought I wanted something sexual and when I started feeling things for the person I went into a complete panic, because I wanted whatever they could give me and I knew it would end terribly.[/quote]

I would not call that love.  That is very dysfunctional.  You may have felt love, but what you feel is not what the other person feels...at all.  I think this is what gets these ppl in trouble.  They think the overwhelming feelings that they feel is love and guys separate sex and love so easily.  The will play the part to amp up the external validation they get, but this is not love.  [/quote]

This is what the wife of every cheating husband tells herself. It’s the only way to take some of the sting and indignity away from having the love of your life betray you. But what you need to understand is that if he’s cheating on you, he does not love you. He make like his set up with you and the kids, but it’s not love in the same sense as you’re perceiving it or hoping he reciprocates. [/quote]

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