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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs are very much about[b] getting scraps/breadcrumbs of love [/b]and I think pp understands that.  that dynamic is why they happen- you don’t think you need or deserve better than someone’s scraps.  For me I just thought I wanted something sexual and when I started feeling things for the person I went into a complete panic, because I wanted whatever they could give me and I knew it would end terribly.[/quote]

I would not call that love.  That is very dysfunctional.  You may have felt love, but what you feel is not what the other person feels...at all.  I think this is what gets these ppl in trouble.  [b]They think the overwhelming feelings that they feel is love and guys separate sex and love so easily.[/b]  The will play the part to amp up the external validation they get, but this is not love.  [/quote]

Not always.  You make a lot of assumptions and generalizations.

My own DH struggled immensely after his affair ended and it seemed like he did not separate sex and love.

I know it is hard to accept, but many times there are feelings involved in affairs.  [/quote]

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