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[quote=Anonymous]OP — If you want to talk, I will try the method of creating an email account this weekend.  I know PP means well but I would not rush to tell kids with any specifics other than marriage is challenging and mom and dad are working on things.  Kids need to know adults are keeping them safe,   They do not need damaging information about their dad or at least not yet.  A couple girlfriends can be helpful and a therapist trained in infidelity would help.  I highly recommend both individual and marital therapy if possible.  DH and I are doing therapy remotely by telehealth in pandemic.  And try to do the basics — eat, drink water, sleep.  I recommend the Betrayed Wives Club website and her book.  There are many good books and podcasts if dh and you will want to review them.  In the beginning I would send dh podcast episodes and he would listen and take notes and if he really wants to help the first thing he has to do is help you survive this blow.  There is a book my dh read in first couple weeks so he knew what to do.  No contact with OW is first step.  So sorry again.[/quote]

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