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Anonymous wrote:I was totally blindsided when my W lost all interest in sex and decided our married sex life was over, for good. After putting up with that a few years, I suppose she would feel just as blindsided (but she really shouldn't) to discover my ongoing affair. I'm sure that's how she would spin it. The ever faithful, perfect wife who thought she had a perfect marriage until one day this just... HAPPENED

It never justifies cheating. Never. Health and safety reasons--for your family.

Man up and ask for a divorce. Lying for years and stealing time away from your kids, spending $ on a non-family member is NEVER the way to go.

What health and safety reasons? They are all safe and nothing I am doing is endangering anyone's health. But I'm not dumb, I know you harpies always have to claim that the cheating world is just a cesspool of STDs that I will bring home. Don't worry, you missed the part where I'm NOT having sex with my W. She can't catch anything from me. And married women are about the safest sex partners a man can chase. Much safer than single women in general.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was totally blindsided when my W lost all interest in sex and decided our married sex life was over, for good. After putting up with that a few years, I suppose she would feel just as blindsided (but she really shouldn't) to discover my ongoing affair. I'm sure that's how she would spin it. The ever faithful, perfect wife who thought she had a perfect marriage until one day this just... HAPPENED

It never justifies cheating. Never. Health and safety reasons--for your family.

Man up and ask for a divorce. Lying for years and stealing time away from your kids, spending $ on a non-family member is NEVER the way to go.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was totally blindsided when my W lost all interest in sex and decided our married sex life was over, for good. After putting up with that a few years, I suppose she would feel just as blindsided (but she really shouldn't) to discover my ongoing affair. I'm sure that's how she would spin it. The ever faithful, perfect wife who thought she had a perfect marriage until one day this just... HAPPENED

It never justifies cheating. Never. Health and safety reasons--for your family.

Man up and ask for a divorce. Lying for years and stealing time away from your kids, spending $ on a non-family member is NEVER the way to go.

+1,000

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Anonymous wrote:I was totally blindsided when my W lost all interest in sex and decided our married sex life was over, for good. After putting up with that a few years, I suppose she would feel just as blindsided (but she really shouldn't) to discover my ongoing affair. I'm sure that's how she would spin it. The ever faithful, perfect wife who thought she had a perfect marriage until one day this just... HAPPENED

It never justifies cheating. Never. Health and safety reasons--for your family.

Man up and ask for a divorce. Lying for years and stealing time away from your kids, spending $ on a non-family member is NEVER the way to go.

Anonymous wrote:I was totally blindsided when my W lost all interest in sex and decided our married sex life was over, for good. After putting up with that a few years, I suppose she would feel just as blindsided (but she really shouldn't) to discover my ongoing affair. I'm sure that's how she would spin it. The ever faithful, perfect wife who thought she had a perfect marriage until one day this just... HAPPENED

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Anonymous wrote:^Go away this isn’t about you.

And I wouldn’t be bragging about how many men cheated on you.

You weren’t very bright and didn’t pick good partners.

The way you live is exhausting, constantly looking over your shoulder.

I think it’s actually entertaining..

Yes. In a purely pathetic way, pretend FBI lady is entertaining. Her batsh*t crazy factor is huge.

She/he isn't actually anything other than a poorly written troll.

You hit the nail on the head.

There is zero possibility that this woman is an actual FBI agent and I'd venture to say that she's never met an actual agent in her life (and the movies don't count).

My husband worked for the agency for 14 years and has since retired.
In that time, I met and became close with many of the coworkers on his team (intelligence/counterintelligence spends so much time working closely together they become like a family, thus they spend a great deal of time outside of work together as well.

NONE of the women that he's worked with have ever behaved in such an immature and vacuous manner like the PP... even during off hours.

This type of gloating and giddy demeanor is so far removed from these women's dispositions, that you would have to have a serious dual personality disorder to be able to conduct yourself in such a diligent and ardent manner from 9-5, and then be so blithe in your personal life.

They take their jobs and themselves so seriously, because all day, every day, they see, hear and are enveloped in some seriously heavy & f@ckd up shit...shit that stays with them FOREVER.

They hear about it, read about it, conduct intricate research and partner across agencies and then force themselves to analyze in detail some of the most sick & deranged crimes that you can imagine. And guess what happens then?

Then they have to delve in even further to this horrific labyrinth of evidence to perform an intricate analysis of the crime, because now they have to create a profile and hunt down the animals that have committed them.

The kind of disturbing knowledge that you receive during the day, stays with you long after leaving the office at night.
It's absolutely impossible to stop the wheels from turning at night, simply because you're off the clock... or because you're on DCUM.

No agent runs around like a high school girl comparing notes with other girls on the internet who "got" their boyfriends too and pretend to play "covert" spy in their personal life.
If you knew any of these women, you'd be embarrassed that you'd made such a claim... even if it was made it in jest (which doesn't account for you claiming it again and again in every post there after).

Please gain some self awareness.

Oh and just an FYI, your first mistake was "outing" yourself as an FBI agent.
I mean... you DO know what "covert" means, don't you? lol

** Sorry to hijack your thread for this OP, but this kind of bullsh!t really just burns me up

Oh lighten up for gods sake! We’re not talking about murders and heinous crimes. We’re talking about catching your cheating partner. FBI agent here btw. I’m not really one of course but I’m damn good at catching cheaters. I’ve only done this with the ones that I got that “feeling” with. Which we all know is usually spot on! I refuse to be blindsided and I believe the sooner you know the sooner you can nip it at the bud to prevent a potentially deep emotional affair that is harder to diffuse thus having a better chance of saving your marriage.

Oh and FYI this is an anonymous forum. And covert means to revert back to “co”.. Bam!

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Go away this isn’t about you.

And I wouldn’t be bragging about how many men cheated on you.

You weren’t very bright and didn’t pick good partners.

The way you live is exhausting, constantly looking over your shoulder.

I think it’s actually entertaining..

Yes. In a purely pathetic way, pretend FBI lady is entertaining. Her batsh*t crazy factor is huge.

She/he isn't actually anything other than a poorly written troll.

You hit the nail on the head.

There is zero possibility that this woman is an actual FBI agent and I'd venture to say that she's never met an actual agent in her life (and the movies don't count).

My husband worked for the agency for 14 years and has since retired.
In that time, I met and became close with many of the coworkers on his team (intelligence/counterintelligence spends so much time working closely together they become like a family, thus they spend a great deal of time outside of work together as well.

NONE of the women that he's worked with have ever behaved in such an immature and vacuous manner like the PP... even during off hours.

This type of gloating and giddy demeanor is so far removed from these women's dispositions, that you would have to have a serious dual personality disorder to be able to conduct yourself in such a diligent and ardent manner from 9-5, and then be so blithe in your personal life.

They take their jobs and themselves so seriously, because all day, every day, they see, hear and are enveloped in some seriously heavy & f@ckd up shit...shit that stays with them FOREVER.

They hear about it, read about it, conduct intricate research and partner across agencies and then force themselves to analyze in detail some of the most sick & deranged crimes that you can imagine. And guess what happens then?

Then they have to delve in even further to this horrific labyrinth of evidence to perform an intricate analysis of the crime, because now they have to create a profile and hunt down the animals that have committed them.

The kind of disturbing knowledge that you receive during the day, stays with you long after leaving the office at night.
It's absolutely impossible to stop the wheels from turning at night, simply because you're off the clock... or because you're on DCUM.

No agent runs around like a high school girl comparing notes with other girls on the internet who "got" their boyfriends too and pretend to play "covert" spy in their personal life.
If you knew any of these women, you'd be embarrassed that you'd made such a claim... even if it was made it in jest (which doesn't account for you claiming it again and again in every post there after).

Please gain some self awareness.

Oh and just an FYI, your first mistake was "outing" yourself as an FBI agent.
I mean... you DO know what "covert" means, don't you? lol

** Sorry to hijack your thread for this OP, but this kind of bullsh!t really just burns me up

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Anonymous wrote:I suspect my spouse has cheated but I can't prove it. I know he is lying about money. He password protects everything. He has lied to my face. But I can't prove it and he continues to gaslight me. I would love to be able to confront him with hard evidence. I would love the FBI agent to share some tips. I know I am not alone.

Ok FBI agent here. I’ll give all you goofballs some of my secrets eventho I should be charging you. I bought about 6 mini digital voice activated recorders. I used Velcro to attach them to places I thought covert convos would happen. Inside car for sure, under his/hers office desk, and places in your house where they might carry on conversations. Under your bed if he’s a real slime ball and he has someone over while you’re away.. These things are amazing and I caught those rat bastards every time! But now with the loss of verbal Communications that’s a little harder. Renting a gps is what I did too. Renting is so much easier because they come already set up and all you have to do is put your login they give you and a password on the computer and attach that magnetic sucker under their car. Oh boy was that fun watching their every move even while I would be talking to them. You really don’t need to rent them long if you suspect anything trust me. Mine was going to massage parlors during work hours. Ugh. You’re welcome! btw if you’re not ready for the truth don’t do it, keep your head in the sand.