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[quote=Anonymous]can FBI lady start her own thread? OP, I'm so very sorry. I can't imagine the shock and betrayal. But you have to remember, he's broken, you didn't do this and it really has nothing to do with you. That's hard to swallow after 20 plus years of marriage, but humans are very strange, complex creatures. At some point, you need to get your own therapist and figure out how to tell you sons (and what to tell them). This is a critical age for them in terms of forming their own ideas about masculinity, so this could be very tough. I would keep the infidelity out of it, if you can, even though its a bitter, bitter pill to swallow. But if you make it clear that it is dad's choice, he's figuring stuff out, the blame is not on you even as you shield them from the worst of it. You will be fine, in the end. Him? who knows. [/quote]
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