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Wait, do you actually tell your children spefically talk to me about marital issues you have? You would be fine with your child bashing their spouse. I just don't understand why you would want to play middle man and get in the middle of drama in someone else's marriage.[/quote]

My children can talk to me about whatever they wish, marital issues included.  There is no middleman between me and my children.

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Anyways in my post I stated I would like our marital issues to stay between us and you turn around and say that you wouldn't mind your son talking to you about his spouse. When that comment literally had nothing to do with my point. I wasn't asking if his mom is ok with it that's not the point I don't give a shit if his mom encourages my DH to talk about our marital issues I don't like it and out of respect for our marriage I want our issues to stay between us. What if you find out your son's wife doesn't like it you would still encourage it? It isn't about if his mom likes it or not it is about if me as his wife wants her marital issues aired[/quote]

If you don't want your DH to talk to his parents about your marital issues, take it up with him.  He's the one who has to agree not to discuss it with his parents. [/quote]

That's literally what I originally said was that I am going to tell my DH not to go to his parents about our marital issues and you turned around and said my children can talk to me about their marital issues like ok... your point is?

But by listening to your kid's marital problems you are automatically putting yourself in the middle of someone else's marital issues. That's literally the definition of being "in the middle" when I listen to two friends/family members talk about their relationship/marital issues I become the middle person. I just don't understand why you wouldn't tell your children talk about it with your spouse.

I would definitely be pretty pissed if my MIL indulged DH in him talking to her about our personal issues. [/quote]

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