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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP checking in for more advice. My husband and his ex got together and agreed the rules should be the same at our house. He insisted my step daughter start working so she left and has been staying with a friend. Now the friend’s parents have told her she needs to leave and can’t stay there anymore. They didn’t directly say that she was a freeloader but that’s what they implied. None of us are sure what to do. My husband and his ex are standing firm that she can’t live with either of them if she won’t work. They’re meeting her this morning to discuss the future (after she packs up her stuff and leaves her friend’s house). She should definitely be in therapy to figure out why she is so resistant to work, so resistant to growing up - but she refuses that too. It’s cold and she has no other friends, nowhere to go. I think we should take her back in at this point but my husband and his ex saw a therapist who said they need to stay united and not cave.[/quote]

You are very kind, but the therapist is correct. Nobody should be enabling this girl.no excuse for her not to get some.job. plus obviously someone is giving her money. Someone is feeding her, buying her tampons, and sustaining her basics. This need to stop as well.[/quote]

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