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[quote=Anonymous]Who wouldn't be anti-adoption knowing that the rights/privacy of the mother cannot be protected anymore. 
Who knows what the next advancement will be in technology, you can already track down who you want via DNA or at least find family. 
IF someone wants an open adoption i doubt their minds will change, however, if someone wants a closed one? That is literally nonexistent at this point. Yeah, for a short period of time until the kid can google and swab their own mouth. 
Many times adoption is not an easy decision the way it is and the mother usually either struggles her whole life or moves on and builds a new one. Either way, there is likely little chance she wants to be found 18 years later and be 'mom' to someone who she chose not to have in her life to begin with.

i am interested in how adoptive parents feel about all of this. Before the child usually had no avenue to find the birth family so they only had the adoptive one. Now, their child will likely know and be able to find their  bio family. What does that do to the adoptive one? [/quote]

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