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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don't know if this situation has brought my sister peace or more questions. But since I wrote my post, she's found everyone including birth father and it's not a happy story regarding any of them. Surprisingly my sister looks more like my family than any of them. But this thread has made me anti adoption. [/quote] Really? Because your sister had a bad experience, you are now anti-adoption? It’s like saying a woman dies from an abortion and now you’re anti-abortion. People who are adopted usually have unhappy stories surrounding their existence. That’s why they were placed for adoption. No one is perfectly happy with a perfect life and puts their kid up for adoption. There is a reason why. I am sorry it has gone badly for your sister. She needs counseling to deal with the aftermath. Btw, I’m an adoptee and I am in reunion with my birth family, so I speak from experience with the good, the bad, and the ugly. [/quote]
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