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[quote=Anonymous]I think there should be some way to contact a neutral 3rd party and they reach out to the other side. if the feeling is mutual and both want to know about the other, then information is shared.

You get into tricky situations that are tricky when extended family is found but maybe not the birth mother or father. 
I do feel that men and women have a right for their medical information to remain private and the lats i looked a pregnancy was a medical condition. 
While i feel for the children who want to know where they came from, they have to respect that the mother/father chose not to have them in their life for a reason. Maybe financial, medical, situational, whatever. 
I don't think anyone has a right to know their biological family. Don't they get some background/medical information from the adoption agency about their biological parents? I know my cousin did (well my aunt/uncle did when they adopted her) they found out the bio mom was addicted to cocain, had diabetes and the dad's family had a history of alcoholism among other things. My cousin knows that medical history but does not know the people themselves (because it was a closed adoption)[/quote]

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