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[quote=Anonymous]All these pages later, and still OP hasn't told us what explanations his wife gives for having no interest in sex. And no, "she just cries and says she feels like a bad wife" is not acceptable. That's a defensive response, not a productive examination and explanation. Does she have orgasms? Is she attracted to you? Do you have real skills (not the bogus stuff you see porn guys do)? Is she angry with you?

Maybe she's a typical burned-out woman with multiple kids and a job, who's so overextended that sleep feels better than anything. Very common for certain phases of life, and we can all sympathize with the effect on both sides.

Does she take meds that make her enjoy sex less or not at all? Do you two have toys to help her enjoy it? If she's just sprawled there like a doll while you putter around with her, and she has no sexual response, then something is really wrong. Maybe your techniques don't suit her, and maybe she's afraid to take charge of her enjoyment and use a toy or tell you what she likes.

If you've ever experienced ED, you know that feeling pressure to perform makes it worse. She could be feeling something like that.

So, any answers? [/quote]

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