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[quote=Anonymous]Ok. God I am so sick of the "new-to-the-internet-straight-from-facebook idiots that have invaded this site in the last couple of Trumpyears who throw around their new found word: "troll". This guy is not a troll. He has voiced a sentiment that is EXTREMELY common among Asian moms of a certain age and traditional culture. [b]I'm not saying it's right![/b] I married a jewish man whose mother practically sat shiva when he married my blonde german/swedish butt. I'm a lawyer, I work for a living, had my own house when I got married--all of it-- but still. The OP loves his wife and you harpies are attacking him and his wife's cultural ignorance without having any sympathy for his difficult position. You're even questioning if he's Vietnamese! What nightmare-ish shrews! Not suprisingly, you all sound like entitled white women who believe they are a "prize" that everyone should embrace purely by dint of their "golly gee great intentions"! Yes, the mom is old fashioned, and her ideas have no place in modern America. But she left Vietnam at 15! And you are kidding yourself if you think you really know what Vietnamese cultural identity is all about if you think this is an easy, cut and dried thing for this husband. [b]Give the mom a chance to get onboard with this![/b] This is why moms of ALL cultures hate to see their sons marry white women. They hate us! Disrespect, dismissive attitudes! You're not doing us any favors with your comments on this thread.[/quote]
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