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Anonymous wrote:Your wife is a racist b**tch.

Wait... what???? Asians can be racist???
Liberals say only Caucasians could be racist.

please get mental help asap, you need it desperately.

As a blonde white lady who is smart and educated, this just reinforces the racism I experienced living in Asia, and continue to experience from people of Asian descent here. Thanks for that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok Op, sure. you are a much better English writer than all my fellow Vietnamese friends’ fathers...!... fascinating

If he was 15 and came here in '75, like many did, he's about the age of my husband and many of my in-laws. They completed high school and college here, and their English writing style has small giveaways of their original language, but they write a lot like he does.

Not in our community, they just run the restaurant, speak/write poor English and talk to all their friends in Vietnamese. Kids born in 1970s and 1980s. They do not speak english well and would never find DCUM!

Triple Troll. Go write some teen bopper books on cross-racial dating.

Are you a dude? Or are you some bitch who hates herself? Because people like you suck.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok Op, sure. you are a much better English writer than all my fellow Vietnamese friends’ fathers...!... fascinating

If he was 15 and came here in '75, like many did, he's about the age of my husband and many of my in-laws. They completed high school and college here, and their English writing style has small giveaways of their original language, but they write a lot like he does.

This. I wonder if what we have on here is a bucn of white guys in their 60's who were in Vietnam and base their racist intolerant attitudes on their limited understanding of Vietnamese culture. And BTW, I get that the mother is also racist--but holy hell, the non-vietnamese on this thread sound like vile, unredeemable, sanctimonious human beings.

I am sorry for you and your situation, OP. Your wife sounds tough, but predictable. Don't feel bad. Ignore the bitches and bastards on this thread: self-hating Vietnamese or probaly Thais, and Hapas, Philipinos--all of them with an axe to grind. And the men on here that take advantage of Vietnamese girls and call the country a shit-hole? You are scum.

If your wife doesn't like blondes just ask your son's GF to dye her hair for a couple weeks then mommy can attend son's wedding. Problem solved.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok Op, sure. you are a much better English writer than all my fellow Vietnamese friends’ fathers...!... fascinating

If he was 15 and came here in '75, like many did, he's about the age of my husband and many of my in-laws. They completed high school and college here, and their English writing style has small giveaways of their original language, but they write a lot like he does.

Not in our community, they just run the restaurant, speak/write poor English and talk to all their friends in Vietnamese. Kids born in 1970s and 1980s. They do not speak english well and would never find DCUM!

Triple Troll. Go write some teen bopper books on cross-racial dating.

Wow. you sound like a prize for any MIL to have to deal with. My god you're awful.

Ok. God I am so sick of the "new-to-the-internet-straight-from-facebook idiots that have invaded this site in the last couple of Trumpyears who throw around their new found word: "troll". This guy is not a troll. He has voiced a sentiment that is EXTREMELY common among Asian moms of a certain age and traditional culture. I'm not saying it's right! I married a jewish man whose mother practically sat shiva when he married my blonde german/swedish butt. I'm a lawyer, I work for a living, had my own house when I got married--all of it-- but still.

The OP loves his wife and you harpies are attacking him and his wife's cultural ignorance without having any sympathy for his difficult position. You're even questioning if he's Vietnamese! What nightmare-ish shrews! Not suprisingly, you all sound like entitled white women who believe they are a "prize" that everyone should embrace purely by dint of their "golly gee great intentions"! Yes, the mom is old fashioned, and her ideas have no place in modern America. But she left Vietnam at 15! And you are kidding yourself if you think you really know what Vietnamese cultural identity is all about if you think this is an easy, cut and dried thing for this husband. Give the mom a chance to get onboard with this!

This is why moms of ALL cultures hate to see their sons marry white women. They hate us! Disrespect, dismissive attitudes! You're not doing us any favors with your comments on this thread.

It's okay to be blonde. My son fell in love with Live cam girls. It's a shock. I don't know this girl, but ... I'm already against it!!! What do you say to my story?

This sounds like a storyline from the Crazy Rich Asian book series....

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Anonymous wrote:lol Your wife magically showed up to the wedding? Your son with the MD is really vacationing in Mexico and South America with his newly pregnant wife, then going to go to Vietnam? And they lived happily ever after, The End!
Two thumbs down. You're a terrible story teller.

LOL!!!!!!

I just sent it to SNL.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok Op, sure. you are a much better English writer than all my fellow Vietnamese friends’ fathers...!... fascinating

If he was 15 and came here in '75, like many did, he's about the age of my husband and many of my in-laws. They completed high school and college here, and their English writing style has small giveaways of their original language, but they write a lot like he does.

Not in our community, they just run the restaurant, speak/write poor English and talk to all their friends in Vietnamese. Kids born in 1970s and 1980s. They do not speak english well and would never find DCUM!

Triple Troll. Go write some teen bopper books on cross-racial dating.

Anonymous wrote:Is this a troll? Please be a troll!

I call troll also.

Anonymous wrote:Once again, this is the biggest load of bullshit I've read in awhile.

Anonymous wrote:Ok Op, sure. you are a much better English writer than all my fellow Vietnamese friends’ fathers...!... fascinating

If he was 15 and came here in '75, like many did, he's about the age of my husband and many of my in-laws. They completed high school and college here, and their English writing style has small giveaways of their original language, but they write a lot like he does.