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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is truly nasty even for DCUM standards. Seething with bitterness.[/quote]

It's pretty much right in line with DCUM nasty standards.  and as usual, most of the nasty is coming from the women in this thread.

I have a great loving relationship with a woman 15 years younger than me. We have a lot of the same life experiences in common  that are hard for others to understand if they haven't lived it.  She isn't crazy or desperate and could easily date any number of men closer to her age, or even younger.  She is attractive, fit, and not surprisingly, she gets a lot of offers.

If this weren't such a nasty place, maybe one or two woman might say, I'm happy for you both that you found each other and enjoy such a great relationship.  But this isn't the place for that.    Even those who say they are happily married, most of them, somehow feel very threatened by the idea of men dating younger.  Some of the guys get it, but this is more of a a board for women to vent their unhappiness and bitterness and project it on to the men why feel are responsible for it.[/quote]
I don't feel at all threatened by an older man dating a younger woman.  I used to be attracted to older men, but that was when I was in my 20s.  I'm in my late 40's now, and don't find 99% of 60 yr old men attractive at all.

I guess if you go by this board, a lot of women are bitter and angry at having to take on the primary duties for childcare/housechore AND work at the same time. And actually, stats show that this is indeed true - women are the primary caregivers, even for elderly parents.  That's a lot of stress and pressure on women.Most of the posts in the relationship forum by women are about how their DHs don't pull their weight at home.  They are married to man-babies.  They wasted their youth on a man-baby, and now that their kids are grown, older men don't want them.  That's probably where the bitterness comes in.  Just a guess.   I'm happily married to a man six years older than me who pulls his weight at home, and then some.  And we do have sex regularly now that  my stress level has gone down (not so when I was stressed out with work, kids, etc).  Honestly, I don't think some of you men realize how stress on a women will kill her libido in a heart beat.  But, I digress. This thread isn't about why your DWs won't have sex with you.[/quote]

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