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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks all!!  Last night I was so, so filled with anger and was seriously on the cusp of contacting the OW's husband.  I think the anger came from the fact that it was my STBXH's night with the kids, so I was alone.  We are also 90% through with splitting up our finances, and I realized that he's spent $10K on this separation!  That was the budget for our wedding back in 2000.  :(

It just sucked to be sitting at home alone, sad, and realizing that my STBXH and the OW were the ones who cheated, and the only people suffering from it are me and my two children.  Every day since the split, my children ask me who is picking them up from school and where they are going to sleep that night.  It kills me that they have that level of uncertainty and disorientation in their lives.  It is SO unfair and it is not how I ever envisioned raising my family.

But . . . I popped a xanax and put on some Netflix and went to bed.  This morning, I'm glad that I didn't do anything rash because I still feel like I have my dignity.  I'm following Michelle Obama's mantra - whey they go low, we go high.  I'm going to get through this! [/quote]

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