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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for checking in. Life continues, and we are adjusting to the new normal. I've kept my calm and I've been able to be strong for my kids. We've been able to attend events for the kids at the same time. I've limited communication to the kids and divorce logistics only. It helps a lot. If he texts me something not related to that, I just delete it and don't engage. Nights are harder, but each day that passes helps me get stronger. He's started to waffle. At mediation, I will make clear statements like "we will do x when the divorce is final." He will say things like " well, if it gets to that point, that would be fine." If it gets to that point, asshole. You cheated on me and lied to me for a year. You put our kids through hell. You've robbed them of the life then knew and loved. You get no more chances. None. [/quote]
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