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[quote=Anonymous]Broken trust is a very big deal. Let's suppose this fellow has had a real epiphany as a result of getting caught this time ... he never, never, never betrays OP's trust ever again over the next 60+ years. But how will OP really ever know that is the case? She will have to travel forward knowing this guy is capable of hurtful behavior and she will have to wonder whether he is where he says he is and with whom. Even after years pass, she will still have to consider odd events or statements in ways that she would never have done but for recent events. And she should. So OP is really having to decide whether having that shadow hanging over the marriage will change the joy and partnership and future she originally planned on. Even if he never does it again. Add to that the very real possibility that he will be dishonest again given that he has proven to not have an internal problem with doing so. Not worth it. [/quote]
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