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[quote=Anonymous]I think you're being very thoughtful in your decision making op. I would say that right now you're in a very intense time, he's working hard on marriage, apologizing his head off etc, you're absorbing the shock of the lies and the what do I do from here feelings. The hard part, at least it was for me in my first marriage (which was very brief due to trust problems) was when real life began again. He can only be "uber husband" for so many weeks and you can only be shocked and sad for so long. Then, even with the counseling, all of it comes back to day to day life. It all boils down, in my opinion,to can you Trust his word. If your gut says no, walk and get counseling to support you through the pain of divorce. You can forgive him but you have to also trust him if you want the marriage to be a healthy one. Huge hugs to you. [/quote]
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