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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, he's doing all the right things NOW and showing remorse and dedication to improvement and healing. He loves you and wants to do the right thing. Counseling and dedicating himself to be a better person are wonderful and great gestures. But ideally, you might be better off with a life partner who could be trustworthy without so much conscious effort. Because the counseling cannot go on forever and the rawness of the recent trauma will recede for both of you. Eventually you will both settle back into being your normal selves ... and his normal self includes a comfort with being dishonest in order to enhance his day to day life. Yes, people can change. But they normally do not actually follow through. Hence the lucrative self-help book section at Barnes and Noble.[/quote]
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