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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you a same sex couple?[/quote] OP. Nope. I'm a woman and he's a man.[/quote] My wife stayed with her last name. My kids have my last name. [b]No issues at all.[/b][/quote] Because the kids have YOUR last name! That's why there isn't any issues. Did you even consider having the kids have her last name? Probably not[/quote] My husband and I had this conversation. I kept my name, and he said he wanted the kids to have his name. He acknowledged that it was irrational but he felt strongly about it. I agreed, as long as I got to pick their first names. He agreed. He cared more than I did about last names, and I got the first names I cared more about (which were family names from my family). Worked out for us [/quote]
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