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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of my Asian friends with parents like this moved far far away as soon as they could. Very sad dynamic[/quote] On average asian adults have better relationships with their parents than any other group so however asian parents are fcking up, the kids seem more willing to forgive them for it than whatever the other parents are doing.[/quote] According to what research? There is the expectation to take care of the parents, but many beyond first generation are moving away from taking in parents. If you take a snapshot, you might see an elderrly Asian mom living with her adult child and their family, but take a look 5 years later, sometimes, they have been moved right back out. My husband and I both have many friends and coworkers who are Korean and Chinese and a Japanese neighbor. The Japanese neighbor had the best situation. Parents were the nannies and cooks for a number of years with free rent and spending money and then they moved out when the kids were more independent. They still seem to have a good relationship. Lot of dysfunction among among many of our other friends along with a history of verbal and/or physical abuse.[/quote] A lot of people making bullshit claims in this thread about both races without evidence to back it up other than "personal experience."[/quote]
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