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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He was parking there after bad days at work. He didn’t want to tell me because knew it wasn’t fair, but also knew once he got home he’d be bombarded by life (kids mostly, but also me just wanting to catch up after the day.) He’s not upset about the tracking. I’m not upset with him. We’ve devised a plan for the next time either of us needs a break, and a code word for when either of us just needs to be left alone for a bit once he/we get home. [/quote]
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Is this OP, above, updating us? Or are you another PP or a new poster? Please tell us, if you're OP and have resolved this. Thanks.
Folks, please ID yourself if you're an OP coming back to update, or note that you're not the OP if you're telling your own story but could be mistaken for an OP.[/quote][/quote]

Thank you for updating us, OP. I would note that he was just seeking a "third place" to decompress before coming home to home's own kind of stresses. Perfectly normal and fine, but the issue was -- he wasn't [i]communicating[/i] to you about either the stresses at work or the stresses he felt when he came home, was he? I'm relieved that you and he finally talked it out and have what sounds like a great plan for ensuring you both get to decompress from now on! Every couple should have a plan like that, I think.

This is also a good example that, despite DCUM's intense and pessimistic belief that Everyone Is Cheating All the Time -- no, they're really not, and sometimes the [i]simplest[/i] answer is the right answer, as it was here. [/quote]

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