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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ENM/poly people are into the whole thing to cover up insecurities, low self-esteem, trauma, etc[/quote] Nope. It takes a lot of maturity and self understanding to navigate non-monogamy responsibly. [/quote] IME, the majority of people I’ve known who crow that they are doing non-monogamy “responsibly” are actually very clearly doing that within a relationship where it’s pretty obvious the person with whom they’re “negotiating non-monogamy” with isn‘t happy but just doesn’t have enough power to say no or to be able negotiate for their needs. Color me not impressed with that kind of “consent”.[/quote] +1 And the louder they crow, and proselytize for the wonders of non-monogamy, the more often they seem to end up divorced in the end.[/quote]
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