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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well looks like this sorted itself. Rather than fake it through counseling to get her clutches into your $2 million, she left you and your money. Perhaps not so greedy and money hungry after all [/quote]

At the end of the day, OP and his ex are not on the same page.

I would be hurt and sad if my fiancé wanted to call off the engagement. I probably would not understand the ring comment or the house.

When Dh proposed to me, the diamond was small. I didn’t like my ring at all. I guess the difference was that I didn’t say anything and we got married. I remember my divorced friend once told me that she knew she shouldn’t have married her ex when he proposed with a crappy ring he bought at the mall. I know she just said it out of hurt but there is some truth to it.

I think the fiancé was just too honest. I don’t think her feelings are unique. Wanting a nice ring, a nice house and wanting to stay home with the kids is a want many women have. Execution of how to get this will vary.

I remember when I had my first baby, some old grandmothers congratulationed me and made it seem like I sealed the deal. As if just being married wasn’t serious enough.
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Oh please, your friend new by the type of ring her former husband bought her that the marriage wouldn't work out? Then, why did she get married?  She couldn't help pitch in to get a better ring if this issues was such a dealbreaker.

The finance was a gold digger plain and simple.  [b]She expected the OP to pay for everything.[/b]  She has a supposedly wealthy family, but they can't chip in and pay for their daughter's wedding?  They can't contribute to the 2mil dollars house she expects starting out which is insane for a first time homebuyer. She can't contribute to the 2 million dollar house herself?   Op mentioned she had a job. [b] OP never answered whether she contributed to their current place so I am guessing that means 'no.'. [/b] I can't imagine why a well off successful man would want to marry such a demanding, entitled woman.  The finance sounds beyond obnoxious. The ring he gave her wasn't good enough.   Her wants were extremely lavish and she supposedly was devoted to her job, but would quit once she got married.  Sounds like OP dodged a bullet and can find someone who is not into his money but into him.[/quote]

I think it's fine that they broke up but this is revisionist af.  OP said his fiancee still had her own apartment that she pays for, but had been staying at his (parents') place the last 2 months.  She buys groceries but he pays his own "nominal" rent on the paid off apartment his parents own to his own parents.  [/quote]

Buys groceries..LOL.  That's is nothing.  OP flat out said she expected him to use his money to pay for the downpayment on their 2 million house.  She works and can't contribute to her own potential house.  Yeah, what a gal![/quote]

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