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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry but if you wake up, get the child ready, take them somewhere, stay out all day long, pick them up feed them dinner and put them to sleep you're NOT raising your child.[/quote] Oh really?[b] Just who is paying for everything,[/b] planning developmentally appropriate activities, instilling abstract values like religion? I guess you're not really married, since you only see your husband at nights and weekends.[/quote] You think that paying for childcare is mothering??? [/quote] She's asking about your DH, and the DHs of so many SAHMs on this board who work the same hours as WOTH moms, if not longer hours (Big Law dads are dime a dozen in our NW neighborhood--most work 60-70 hour weeks). Let me try to clarify it out for you: Do you consider DH a bad father because he works full-time? Because most of these dads who work in jobs that pay enough so that DW can SAH do NOT "wake up, get the child ready, take them somewhere, stay out all day long, pick them up feed them dinner and put them to sleep." Maybe you need to have a talk with your DH because right under your own nose, your life parter is, according to your own standards, "NOT raising your child."[/quote]
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