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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We only had sporadic sex for a few years during the little kid stage. DH never gave an ultimatum, likely because I had a lot of work/parent/kid stress going on.

Anyways, he waited it out and now we have sex every day. It’s fabulous. I’m so thankful that he didn’t whine or try to have a serious talk about it - that’s just so unattractive. [/quote]

How old were the kids when the sex got good again?[/quote]

Life is too short for a man to wait around with “sporadic sex for a few years”[/quote]
That’s fine, but not everyone feels that way. It was worth it for us![/quote]

Same thing happened to me. It was just a bump in the road. Long term nbd. [/quote]

I honestly think this goes back to male-focused sex. If men and women were acculturated into understanding that women’s desire is central to sex, it wouldn’t be that hard to understand the reality that it’s normal if sex decreases when you have young kids in the house. It’s just dispiriting that a man’s #1 priority is “all the sex I can get exactly when I want it!” instead of the family or relationship as a whole. Especially when we’re not talking about zero sex but sporadic sex (I’m assuming 2-3x/month). [/quote]

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