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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

[b]Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage[/b][/quote]

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate.  Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day.  You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road.  Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability.  But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.[/quote]

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

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My ex-AP got upset a few years in when somehow I let on my wife and I had sex a couple times a week still.  She had ceased having sex with her husband and talked negatively about him.  Like you, I preferred never to speak of my wife and when I did I never spoke bad or said anything negative.  That’s when things definitely started turning in the affair because she realized I was never leaving my wife. I never told her that I ever had any plans to do that, but by hanging around she read way more into the length of time of the affair and I guess she thought she could prove irresistible.  I never once envisioned a life with her.  [/quote]

[b]This totally sounds like the "vindicated" wife posting as her husband to convince us and herself that her husband never had feelings for his AP.[/quote][/b]

This totally sounds like the AP who actually believed a married man had feelings her and wasn't just using her for sex and fun. [/quote]

I laughed too. Statistics back you up as well!

My friend suspected her DH was having an affair. He was already slowly telling the AP it was over because she was doing hang up calls. And other things to try and break up the marriage.

My friend got all the info on her, and left her a message at work which freaked her out because anyone could have gotten it. Her next step was going to contact other people as well, the AP never bothered them again. She's long done with her husband, but he doesn't know it. Thinks she forgave him, and they have a good marriage but he's only a cash cow at this point. I guess not all cheaters get the last laugh.[/quote]

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