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[quote=Anonymous]I'm on the other side of this. And it's not great to be on that side, either. Testosterone was checked- it's low, but still in the normal range. The pandemic has definitely made things much worse, but it was already downhill after the kids. Or really, the two years of trying to conceive, which made sex a chore that I dreaded. Psych meds just made things worse, in several different ways. I'll admit, I feel a certain amount of resentment towards my wife, which I'm sure is part of a reinforcing cycle. But its hard for me to to separate the depression from the resentment. Tried therapy even before the meds, but again, that also just made things worse. But, it is a mostly functional marriage otherwise. I don't think either one of us is particularly happy with the situation, but a lot of aspects of our lives and our kids' lives would get worse if we divorced. So I don't really view that as a viable option, and I'm quite sure my wife doesn't either.[/quote]
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