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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is not rare for men with active sex lives to cheat. Cheating is about opportunity more often that it's about need. 
(Look, I'll out myself as someone who had sex with married men twenty years ago. I haven't since I was 25 and I know how terrible it is, but I can't undo it. I am sharing this to shut up all the men who claim that they only cheat because they're desperate). They were all crazy about their wives, and had very active sex lives. Shared all the details with me. They had sex with me because they could. Because it was exciting. Because of the novelty. And FWIW, back then I wouldn't have had sex with a guy like the whiners in this thread. Desperation isn't hot on single men, and it certainly isn't appealing on men who are cheating on their wives. Maybe these desperate sexless husbands who cheat are cheating with desperate sexless wives, because I can promise you that a single woman who only cares about fun and her own pleasure to the extent that she'll even sleep with a married man, is going to be completely turned off by a man as bitter and resentful as the ones here. [/quote]

This is a sexless marriage thread. Your post is completely off topic. Start a new thread. Nobody has ever claimed that there aren't married men getting laid at home who also cheat. Yes it happens.
But [b]relative to the sexless marriage cheating husbands, it is exceptionally rare.[/b]

For every one of those cheating husbands with active sex lives who cheat because they CAN (opportunity drops into their lap), there are a [u]hundred[/u] low sex husbands who are actively cheating because they MUST (investing significant effort and/or $$ to create these opportunities).
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