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[quote=Anonymous]I do not understand why some people are opposed to train DH.

If you have gone through threads on this forum two common problems emerge again and again

1. Men complain about not getting enough sex
2. Women complain that DH does not help with chores and children

How can anyone not see the connection? It just boggles my mind.

DH and I assume most men care a lot, really really lot about the frequency of sex. That is massively important to him.

I made it clear in words and actions that all the household work, taking care of children tires me out and that is the biggest hindrance to a greater frequency of sex. Making it clear means you need to train DH.

Now DH does, I would guess about 60-70% of all the household chores and taking care of children. In return, we have 3-4x a week of sex. It is something that really works for both of us.

I suspect it would work for a lot of couples as well.

We did not sit and write out a contract with witnesses regarding this. It is sometimes subtle and sometimes not so subtle indications. It might take a 1-2 years. This is what I mean by train your DH.

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