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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sending a letter like that makes YOU look crazy.[/quote]

Completely depends on the tone.[/quote]

Wrong. I have gotten one of these letters when I had broken it off when an ex-fiancee to say he had been cheating on me for more than a year. The tone was nice "women sticking out for women" bull. I was really angry. I would have preferred not to get such a letter. I was very upset someone thought they had the right to but into my life. People should mind their own business. No one has any idea what goes on in someone's relationship and they have no right to "out" anyone. It is not their business. Despite her nice tone, I thought the woman was a nutcase. [/quote]

I think in this situation when the marriages have been over 20 years in length and there are children involved on both sides, it's VERY DIFFERENT than a person you weren't even married to yet.  You cannot begin to understand the ramifications of the cheater's actions.[/quote]

NP.  I think this is all the more reason NOT to tell.  I'm currently divorcing DH bc I found out he cheated.  I'm losing everything -- friends, family, financial security, companionship, my home.  I would've rather stayed ignorant, and that's not up for debate.[/quote]

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