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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Can I ask how is it that you were in this relationship for 4 years and just now feel guilty? What led to ending this relationship and this feeling of guilt? What if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you for a while because of cheating....how long will you be patient and not cheat again?[/quote]

NP here, also broke off a shorter affair after getting caught.  The PP you asked is far more reflective than I am.  I take responsibility, but I also have some resentment that I tried oh, maybe 30 conversations with my wife about doing something to get our sex life up and running and all were dismissed or she tried then settled back into once a month or so.  I was so lonely.

Still, the affair killed any chance of us ever reconnecting.  She doesn't want to divorce, not yet, but it's been six months of no intimacy and I am dying inside.  How long can I wait?  Tomorrow for sure, next week probably, but at some point marriage isn't a misery contract.  She is SAH so perhaps until she gets a job and is financially stable?  I feel horrible for the fall out, she deserves better and so do I.  
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