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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He wants more physical intimacy. I want more emotional intimacy. Chicken and egg for both of us.[/quote] This is the vicious cycle for us. He says he needs sex to feel connected to me. I need to feel connection before I want sex. We are just coexisting and his body no longer turns me on. [/quote] My husband is not a hand holding kind of guy but somehow over time I've been successful at "training" him that being sweet and showing signs of affection goes a very long way in getting me to want to have sex. Now he often compliments me on how I look, he'll give me a hug in the morning and always says "love you" when he leaves or gets off the phone. This may fall far short of what others consider emotional intimacy but it beats nothing![/quote]
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