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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] If you can't see what serious potential future problems you'd be setting yourself up for by pushing your adult daughter to have an abortion....we can't help you. [/quote] And if you can’t see the problem with pressuring someone to put a baby up for adoption, we can’t help you. Or if you can’t with having a baby at 20 with no degree, no partner for support, and no money or means of financial support— at a time when Medicaid is being dismantled, CHIP is being defunded, TANF and SNAP are being severely cut, etc, we can’t help you. We get it, you are pro-birth. But poor-Birthers like to end the story as soon as the beautiful white bay is born. If they didn’t, they would have to explain why. There is no social safety net for a young girl, alone with a screaming infant, worried that the kid is sick and unable to take them to the doctor because it is too expensive. Plus, if the kid is sick, the crappy daycare they could afford won’t take them, so they cam’t atrend class. And they can’t afford to fix the car or pay for gas, so they need to take the baby on the bus. And they don’t know how they can afford to feed the kid after the second week of the month, so they are skipping meals. If you think this is okay... we can’t help you. There are no great options. [/quote] Don 't forget that the father is a college student. He is going to graduate and will be forced to pay child support. His income could be very good in a few years Adoption is an option for the poor people who cannot support a high school student finish school There is no need for doom and gloom in this scenario. The worst thing you can do is demonize single parenthood. It really is not that bad, plenty of people do it. [/quote]
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