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[quote=Anonymous]I have a friend whom after her husband cheated on her (affair, not one night stand) and made her feel stupid andnon at his level kept defending her husband and making excuses for him. The problem was that HE is the manipulator (and probably smarter than my naive friend) and turned his affair into something my friend made him do because she was making him feel bad about himself. These men (and women) exist unfortunately. They make huge mistakes and turn it around as if it were the SO’s fault. My friend’s husband is not trying to win her back or do any kind of work to show how sorry he is. He keeps telling her that she needs to stop nagging or he will need to cheat again. Your husband is like this man OP. He may have not cheated (I doubt it) but he disrespected you just as much. I lost my friend because I wanted her to leave her husband and she didn’t. The husband knew what I thought of him and that’s why we don’t hang out anymore. I hate seeing these subdued and unaware women that believe everything their husband tell them. It’s probably good we are not friends anymore[/quote]
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