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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]High Achieving early 30's black male here who is single. I have dated many of these AA high achieving women and this has been my experience. Most of them have no depth.  My most common takeway is "Great you have all these degrees, you're still boring and not that interesting. Your job isn't your passion and out side of work and the common bougie minority woman activities of traveling and brunch, they're not that in tune with themselves or what they want. Some of them want a guy who is an accessory and not a partner. Others have baggage from failed relationships, or just finally discovering who they are after spending most of their 20's in school. Women are interesting, and the high achieving minority  AA female is probably the most interesting in that her accomplishments are often times an inverse portrait of her self esteem when it comes to personal self worth outside of job/career/education.

I may be different though the degree thing isnt that important to me, I dont have a single woman in my family who either at least doesnt have a Masters (just one) /  MD / DDS / PHD / JD or MBA from a top 10 institution. So smart women dont intimidate me, most of them just dont pass muster to the women in my life. [/quote]

Wow. Just wow. You are the quintessential Sellout. The cliche black women deal with on a daily basis. You are the problem with the black race. You never hear men of other races stick their nose up at their women because the women have education, good careers, and fun hobbies. Leave it to a black man to turn down the perfectly good women in his own race. Why, because you don't think their hobbies are fun? That is what's shallow.

This same black man, probably dates white or "exotic" looking women, who don't hold a candle to the available black women in his life. But yet, the black women are the problem? No, sir, YOU are the problem.

I'm a white woman, and so disgusted reading that response. Now I see the shallow bullshit my black female friends have to deal with from the men in their own race. The educated black men seem to think they are too good for the educated black women that are on their same level. You don't see this happen in any other race.

Black men are the sole problem for families breaking down within the black race, and don't want to be the solution to fixing it. They'd rather run to the white people and try to fit in. Sellouts.[/quote]

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