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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All African (born and raised in Africa) women I've dated in DC have been high maintenance. Especially those from Sierra Leone, in my experience. It's not that they're consciously gold-digging, it's just an expectation that it is natural for the guy to be an ATM, 24/7. [/quote]

Yeah in West African cultures, men generally take their provider role very seriously. Of course there are exceptions, I'm just speaking in general. There is an expectation that a man be very generous and contribute to personal "upkeep" so to speak. The woman is also expected to be highly educated, stylish, fit, and an excellent cook. That's just how it goes.[/quote]

Agreed.

AA woman who's dated African men.

Even in 2017 most Africans are VERY conservative (they hold onto their traditions DEARLY) and take their roles as providers seriously. I've learned not to even reach for my purse when dealing with one of them. I've left my African man in the car to go into the store and buy something for myself, only to turn around to see him whipping out his wallet. He paid for my purchase then left the store and got back in the car.[/quote]

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