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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]intelligent, kind and outgoing friend. ... pretty face and is perfect on paper; well educated, makes a great salary, and is sexually open ... probably 50 lbs overweight. ... Is DC a particularly difficult dating pool for overweight women?[/quote]

It is frustrating how clueless and self-centered women can be about dating.  Men largely don't care about women's education and salary.  Educated often means snobby.  High salary means that she will have higher expectations, even though the man pays for dates.  It is a red flag that you would even write the suspiciously vague "perfect on paper".  That suggests she has a checklist that demands a man who is "perfect on paper".

Women want tall, dark, and handsome.  Men want thin, young/fair, and pretty.  Women don't like bald men, and men prefer long hair.

At 50 pounds overweight, your friend is around the 90th percentile for weight.  That corresponds to a man who is 5'7".  If you don't expect her to enthusiastically date men who are 5'6", then don't expect most men to date her.

She should just go to OKCupid with professional photos, and a short, vague, feminine profile that says she loves fun, laughter, fun, sunshine, puppies, love, and fun.  She can add a few personal interests or photo "hooks" to help dumb guys think of a pertinent message. 
She will be deluged with messages.

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