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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here sorry it was Oct 2024. He started moving stuff last week of Oct and started sleeping there first week of Nov.

And yep, I met someone by accident in December and it has been a very slow process. I've been completely honest with him. [/quote]

Be careful, OP. I don’t know how you’ll be able to continue to take it slow while needing to be the sole responsible parent. And while you may think he seems great, you once thought your ex was a great guy too.[/quote]

OP, take it fwiw I don’t know you or the guy you are seeing but like others, alarm bells are going off for me.  You are in an extremely vulnerable place right now and you have young children.  It’s horrible to say but also the truth that many men look for women in exactly your situation bc they want to get to your child or children.  Do not be naive. Let’s be honest you have a lot going on and it is all quite recent.  The BF may be well intentioned but most men are not going to step into your situation right now unless there is something that makes it interesting for them.  Not saying that you will never find someone and will end up alone forever, far from it!  But the timing right here is suspect.  You have done so much to try to salvage your children’s sense of stability and happiness and build anew from the wreckage don’t risk everything by being blind to potential risks to your children’s wellbeing.  Even if this man is well intentioned, I think you need to focus all of your energy right now on understanding why and how you ended up with your DH and being sure you will not make another mistake.  It’s all way too soon.  [/quote]

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