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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We talked last month about marriage and she said she is in no rush. If it happens, it happens, but she doesn’t need a timeline of for her life. She just turned 28. I’m 35. The two couples I know who got married quickly after meeting instead of the 2-3 year courtship are now headed for divorce. It makes me nervous because it’s a lifelong commitment. [/quote] Tbh, she can stand to wait another year and be fine. But being a man of 35, if you don’t know after a year, then I don’t think she’s the one for you. For most hetero women, they know he’s “the one” when she can picture the rest of her life WITH you. For most hetero guys, they know she’s “the one” if they CAN’T picture the rest of his life WITHOUT her. OP—if you are not frightened by the risk of losing her, then you really need to consider whether you actually want to be married to her. And I’d you aren’t convicted about it, you need to let her know she’s not the one. [/quote]
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