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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does anyone else find the moms with the biggest mean girl tendencies are the ones that never left the town they grew up in and/or work in a ms/hs setting? It’s like they never matured past high school.

I’ve found that to be the case where I currently live. I also know several girls that were mean in high school never left the town where I grew up (different part of the country) and work as ms/hs teachers or administrators. I don’t really know them as adults though. [/quote]

x100000 They don't want you to question their emotionally stunted, rank and file, status quo BS - which is actually hilarious, to those who are more emotionally and socially age appropriate.  [/quote]
What’s hilarious actually is women complaining about other women being mean and then turning around and doing the same thing.[/quote]

I kind of agree on this. The easiest way to tell if someone is a mean girl is if they speak poorly about others. If they generally have positive things to say about others and/or bite their tongues about the negative, they're good people. [b]If you think someone is mean but you are bad mouthing them to others, you're just as bad. [/b][/quote]

If you think someone is mean and you go around tell people "I think she's really mean, don't you think she's mean?" yes, you are being gossipy and just as bad.

But if someone is unkind TO YOU and you talk to a friend about that direct experience, it's not gossip and it's not mean. You can't gossip about your own lived experience. Now, you might want to choose carefully who you tell because if you think they might go off and discuss your experience with others, that IS gossip. So be careful of your confidences.

But talking about how someone was mean to you does not make you mean. It's okay to talk about negative experiences you've had with someone.
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Don’t let these mean girls have power.  If they start being rude to someone else, say something.  If they are rude to you, Shade them.  Just watch Phaedra and Nene and Kenya on RHOA[/quote]

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