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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We dealt with something like this recently, except it was the opposite situation: we were scheduled to move for an amazing job opportunity overseas, told everyone & started preparing, and then the job opportunity was canceled about 4 weeks before our scheduled move. It was so demoralizing. At first, we didn’t even really tell anyone except family. And then word started trickling out and then I had to repeat the same story 100x over the next 4 months.

It really sucked, but it actually worked out for the best for our family. Sigh.

Give her space. She’s probably going thru something traumatic. [/quote]

Oh not. Maybe just maybe she just does not consider OP a friend. And is actually a bit weirded out by OP. But OP and people like OP create these crazy scenarios in their head to protect their ego and rationalize the continued prodding of someone who doesn’t want to speak with them. Like a creepy guy who tells himself she’s just playing hard to get as he continues texting and calling over and over.[/quote]

But OP isn’t some dude that she dated a few times and is now stalking her. She is also a woman, and a mom, and they hung out frequently and their kids were friends. It’s not being a stalker to be like “my daughter said you moved! We miss you guys- that seemed sudden!” and SUPER WEIRD of her friend to just respond “lol”. [/quote]

It’s not super weird — it’s making it crystal clear she does not value OP’s “friendship” and OP needs to take a freaking hint. It is literally no different than a creeper guy texting over and over. Stop and back off. Asking for the new address is so creepy. You are NOT her friend. Leave her alone.[/quote]

DP - did you read the OP’s history with this woman?  Whatever’s going on, it’s the woman who moved who is acting strange, not the OP.  [/quote]

“Dude, you should have seen the way she looked at me on our two dates. She wants me. Trust me. Just playing hard to get.”

You nutters need to take a hint. And OP is obviously from a biased POV. Of course OP would never admit this isn’t a real friendship and it’s totally one-sided. Ego and no self awareness, so also creepy men quote above.[/quote]

Stop trolling. If OP isn’t herself a troll, she was friends with mom, husband was friends with dad, and kid was friends with kid. Even if OP was over involved stalker friend… kid never mentioned she was moving to Wisconsin? Something very weird happened and I think OP should be less concerned about being friend dumped and more concerned with making sure it’s not worse than that.[/quote]

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